Confused? Not able to Decide, whom to follow. Heart or Intelligence ?(Based on book "Brain Drain" written by Charles F. Glassman)
Technique 1 . Develop matrix between Circumstances (what is triggering the fight) , Danger (if you do what will happen), Comfort / Safety (if you do not do what will happen). For, example you are doing good in your company and you have spend 5 years at organization, but you confront with a good opportunity which has better scope and new profile. Following will be the Matrix; Circumstances / Trigger Danger Comfort / Safety Not Taking the job Box -1 Routine and familiar work. No new learning. Stuck up at one profile only. Minimization of future growth. Inner frustration due to less enriched profile Box -2 Familiar work, staying at home slow but steady growth. Taking the job Box -3 New challenges and things never done before will be required. If not able to do than I will lose that job and current job as well. Ultimately sit at home with no money and become dependent. Box -4 New profile, new h...